I have learned in my interesting journey of relationships that people will show you a lot of things in the beginning. I know this to be true because when the relationships fail, I reflect on how it failed. I remember the signs that I dismissed. I find myself becoming frustrated because I don't understand why I dismissed the signs. It took some time to catch on to the concept why we dismiss things that are clearly not right. When we start our Journeys in relationships we feel like we have invested so much time even if it's a month, and we then feel like we must stand firm for the Long Haul. That's not true. That's far from true. I don't care where you are in your relationship, if it is not right for you and you are being abused in any way then you must leave immediately.
Relationships are so wonderful in the beginning because we send in our "Representatives". Some of us don't do it intentionally because we're so smitten that the softer side surfaces first. When you are in new "love" and "like" and brings out the best in you. When things shift in the relationship and it turns sour, then the attitude surfaces and that bright sunshine feeling has now dimmed. For some the shift is not so bad but for an abuser the real monster comes out. When you see any sign of that monster no, I'm advising you to get the hell out! Bow out on the relationship gracefully and peacefully and make sure you're protected at all times. Advise your friends and family I know what you have witnessed and that they should protect themselves at all times as well. The moment you are grabbed, pushed, or anything worse, it is time to go. As soon as you become that "bitch" or anything equivalent to that name then you should bow out gracefully and move on from the relationship. Once you have been disrespected and violated in any way there's no turning back.
♡STEVIE MICHAELS SPEAKS♡
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