I never had a specific map that I followed each and every time I met someone. My path changed just like each person because they were all different. I was different. I was comfortable with the idea of being open and I still am.
I have a lot of friends that I have shared my dating experiences with. I have come to learn over the years that some agree with my dating style and some are totally against it. I used to care about what people thought and then I had to realize I was the creator of my happiness! I had to do things MY WAY.
This isn't a dress rehearsal for me. I don't get another chance at life so I have to do what makes me happy!
Now don't get me wrong, I understand that people think that they are advising what is best for me. What they don't realize is, they are advising me of what's comfortable for them... Not comfortable for me.
If I want to have a one-night stand or if I want to have a long-lasting fling, both decisions are mine. If I want to be single and date a couple of guys at a time or if I want a monogamous and committed relationship, that decision is mine. I can say that because I am strong enough to handle all of those scenarios and feel like I'm living my best life.
Now that I've said and displayed my strength in the dating world oh, let me comment on those that try to mimic the style and find a bit of difficulty. Women who are not strong enough to deal with a unique dating Style should not indulge. They should stick to their guns. They should do what makes them feel safe and happy.
If waiting for a long period of time before holding hands or kissing or introducing sex is your safe journey then stay on that path.
Evaluate from a distance before you dive into their business. Observe and see if it's really working for them or is this really and truly causing a disaster. Is this person mentally capable for that path and do they really need your help? If your friend is constantly disappointed, depressed or desperate and doing things to cause more harm than good then grab the glasses of wine and have the talk. Or is he or she comfortable in their skin, strong-willed, and not really bothered? Then applaud them! You may need to take notes🤔.
♡ STEVIE MICHAELS SPEAKS ♡
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