GIRL, UNLESS HE WEARS A DIAPER YOU CAN'T CHANGE HIM! Wow, that is pretty deep and very true! Oftentimes along our stressful journey in relationships, we hit the point where there's a list of things that we think we can or should change about out mate. Accepting someone for who they truly are can be challenging. It depends on the type of changes that need to be made. Simple habits from your mate can be a bit irritating and hard to get used to. In the case of abuse, those "habits" need to be left behind.
If your mate has some ways about him or her that are harmful to you in ANY way then those are not considered habits. A habit is a settled or regular tendency or practice, especially one that is hard to give up. Forgiveness happens and then both are willing to move on expecting to see improvement. In most cases, abusers have no tendency to move on or improve. Their actions can be so harmful that an apology won't erase the damage. Now, can you change that?
to be continued......
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